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		<title>By: petrcech</title>
		<link>http://www.adam-khoo.com/377/to-be-somebody-you-must-be-loved-and-be-hated/comment-page-1/#comment-190432</link>
		<dc:creator>petrcech</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jan 2011 11:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WisH me luck to become a Billionaire</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WisH me luck to become a Billionaire</p>
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		<title>By: Khoa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Khoa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Could you send me some more info about becoming a trainer?

Cheers mate

Khoa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Could you send me some more info about becoming a trainer?</p>
<p>Cheers mate</p>
<p>Khoa</p>
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		<title>By: Bao</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bao</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 03:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>=== FREEDOM OF CHOICE ===

Hi All,

I believe everyone has something they can control. That is the freedom of Choice and Decision. 

We can&#039;t really stop people from commenting positively or negatively. Just like Adam has the choice of whether he wanna to post this &quot;sensitive&quot; issues. 

But one thing for sure we can DECIDE and CHOOSE for ourselves whether it will affect us empowerly or disempowerly.

I believe most know this, but like to say it again: That is we can&#039;t really fully control the events happening to us. But we SURE can control the MEANINGs (how we intepret) attached to it.

This is truely a gift that is free to use.

From:
W-Bao</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>=== FREEDOM OF CHOICE ===</p>
<p>Hi All,</p>
<p>I believe everyone has something they can control. That is the freedom of Choice and Decision. </p>
<p>We can&#8217;t really stop people from commenting positively or negatively. Just like Adam has the choice of whether he wanna to post this &#8220;sensitive&#8221; issues. </p>
<p>But one thing for sure we can DECIDE and CHOOSE for ourselves whether it will affect us empowerly or disempowerly.</p>
<p>I believe most know this, but like to say it again: That is we can&#8217;t really fully control the events happening to us. But we SURE can control the MEANINGs (how we intepret) attached to it.</p>
<p>This is truely a gift that is free to use.</p>
<p>From:<br />
W-Bao</p>
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		<title>By: Suhardi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suhardi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 04:24:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Adam. Everything we do is is a risk. When we do something, even it is for good, we will still receive positive and negative comments. No one will ever kick the dead dog. The bigger the dog, the louder the barking, the more the people are willing to kick it (My analogy). Even Buddha or Jesus were threatened because of their views, even they were for goods.

Even though I&#039;m from Indonesia, I agree with you. It depends on what we give meaning to it. If those who read this post are having positive thinking, they will make it as a whip to fight for more success, more happiness and more achievement in their life. Those who are having negative thinking, those are their choices. Life is full of choice, and we can choose to feel humiliated by circumstances or to feel challenged to prove our own true potential.

Success for u...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Adam. Everything we do is is a risk. When we do something, even it is for good, we will still receive positive and negative comments. No one will ever kick the dead dog. The bigger the dog, the louder the barking, the more the people are willing to kick it (My analogy). Even Buddha or Jesus were threatened because of their views, even they were for goods.</p>
<p>Even though I&#8217;m from Indonesia, I agree with you. It depends on what we give meaning to it. If those who read this post are having positive thinking, they will make it as a whip to fight for more success, more happiness and more achievement in their life. Those who are having negative thinking, those are their choices. Life is full of choice, and we can choose to feel humiliated by circumstances or to feel challenged to prove our own true potential.</p>
<p>Success for u&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Julianto Cahyadi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julianto Cahyadi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 07:48:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Adam,

I like the way you handle this; &quot;Instead of getting angry and nasty myself, I usually reframe it in my mind to feel empathy and compassion for these people.&quot;

I believe it&#039;s easier said than done, but I am 1000% sure that you can handle it! 

Cheers and have a good day, Adam!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Adam,</p>
<p>I like the way you handle this; &#8220;Instead of getting angry and nasty myself, I usually reframe it in my mind to feel empathy and compassion for these people.&#8221;</p>
<p>I believe it&#8217;s easier said than done, but I am 1000% sure that you can handle it! </p>
<p>Cheers and have a good day, Adam!</p>
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		<title>By: BAH</title>
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		<dc:creator>BAH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Feel so honoured that my comment caught your attention. BTW I&#039;m one of your BizAd juniors. no doubt you are successful and worthy of admiration, but your support for foreigners and lack of empathy and understanding for locals and their predicament really make me feel ashame. You can come up with consoling words and reasons to make yourself feel better and justify whatever you&#039;ve said in your expats post, and I&#039;m nobody to debunk you of your personal views. 

It is not incorrect to say that some Singaporeans expect high pay but are not hardworking and motivated to deserve it, but don&#039;t all societies have such people? I have many Bizad friends who deserve reasonable pay and decent benefits but they are still struggling to achieve them. Why? This country is filled with not only foreign workers who do the jobs we won&#039;t do, but now is also filled with highly &quot;educated&quot; FTs like MBAs and PHDs who can accept pay as low as $2k. You tell me how to survive with 2k in Singapore? most of us graduates are not born rich, we have tuition loans to pay and parents to feed. Yet these FTs enter our homeland and snatched away jobs we studied 18 years for. Can you really understand how it feels? Not everybody can be entrepreneurs you know.

I would like to suggest with my utmost sincerity that as a true blue Singaporean you should read alternative media like temasekreview. As sensationalized as it can be, it never fails to highlight important social issues that upper-class residents do not and do not want to know. 

Learning about real issues not covered by the govt-controlled mainstream media like ST would broaden your perspectives which you can share with your kids and educate them to be hard-striving intelligent yet down-to-earth citizens who have the heart not only for themselves but for their family and their nation.

You can take this as another hater post and ignore totally. At least I tried. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Feel so honoured that my comment caught your attention. BTW I&#8217;m one of your BizAd juniors. no doubt you are successful and worthy of admiration, but your support for foreigners and lack of empathy and understanding for locals and their predicament really make me feel ashame. You can come up with consoling words and reasons to make yourself feel better and justify whatever you&#8217;ve said in your expats post, and I&#8217;m nobody to debunk you of your personal views. </p>
<p>It is not incorrect to say that some Singaporeans expect high pay but are not hardworking and motivated to deserve it, but don&#8217;t all societies have such people? I have many Bizad friends who deserve reasonable pay and decent benefits but they are still struggling to achieve them. Why? This country is filled with not only foreign workers who do the jobs we won&#8217;t do, but now is also filled with highly &#8220;educated&#8221; FTs like MBAs and PHDs who can accept pay as low as $2k. You tell me how to survive with 2k in Singapore? most of us graduates are not born rich, we have tuition loans to pay and parents to feed. Yet these FTs enter our homeland and snatched away jobs we studied 18 years for. Can you really understand how it feels? Not everybody can be entrepreneurs you know.</p>
<p>I would like to suggest with my utmost sincerity that as a true blue Singaporean you should read alternative media like temasekreview. As sensationalized as it can be, it never fails to highlight important social issues that upper-class residents do not and do not want to know. </p>
<p>Learning about real issues not covered by the govt-controlled mainstream media like ST would broaden your perspectives which you can share with your kids and educate them to be hard-striving intelligent yet down-to-earth citizens who have the heart not only for themselves but for their family and their nation.</p>
<p>You can take this as another hater post and ignore totally. At least I tried. <img src='http://www.adam-khoo.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Clive Tan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clive Tan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam,
A little late to this sharing, as I do not check out your blog regularly.

To others,
I am a graduate of Wealth Academy and his MBA program. I am a business owner and investor, also a trainer in the same industry.

In my interaction with Adam, I truly feel that he is giving his all in his sharing. What he has created is, in my opinion, astounding. It is not easy to be running a business, balancing all the various interests between shareholders, management, employees and customers.

I may be a â€œcompetitorâ€ *in a certain sense* but I truly respect and salute Adam, not so much for what he has achieved but more for who he is and his contributions to society.

The cynics can say all they want, but my (and many others) opinion of him has skyrocketed upwards since I met him personally in his program.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam,<br />
A little late to this sharing, as I do not check out your blog regularly.</p>
<p>To others,<br />
I am a graduate of Wealth Academy and his MBA program. I am a business owner and investor, also a trainer in the same industry.</p>
<p>In my interaction with Adam, I truly feel that he is giving his all in his sharing. What he has created is, in my opinion, astounding. It is not easy to be running a business, balancing all the various interests between shareholders, management, employees and customers.</p>
<p>I may be a â€œcompetitorâ€ *in a certain sense* but I truly respect and salute Adam, not so much for what he has achieved but more for who he is and his contributions to society.</p>
<p>The cynics can say all they want, but my (and many others) opinion of him has skyrocketed upwards since I met him personally in his program.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam</title>
		<link>http://www.adam-khoo.com/377/to-be-somebody-you-must-be-loved-and-be-hated/comment-page-1/#comment-171452</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>someone will email you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>someone will email you</p>
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		<title>By: Adam</title>
		<link>http://www.adam-khoo.com/377/to-be-somebody-you-must-be-loved-and-be-hated/comment-page-1/#comment-171448</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your words of love and encouragement</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your words of love and encouragement</p>
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		<title>By: flash toh</title>
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		<dc:creator>flash toh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 21:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Adam, how do i become a trainer if i want to. Do drop me a email.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Adam, how do i become a trainer if i want to. Do drop me a email.</p>
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